Iconic Details Identity Sanctuary
Iconic Details Sanctuary Lola VonRoda
Iconic Details Identity Sanctuary

Why Me!?

Because I’ve said

“I choose me!”

    • I was a collegiate athlete that ripped my rotator and could no longer swim or play water polo. I lost my identity and had to ask “who am I now?”

    • I divorced my family when the narcissistic abuse got to be too much. Enabling, being passive to keep the peace, dulling my opinions, and adopting false facts just to avoid a fight, I’m proud to say I escaped the abuse loop. The cyclical tension, incident, reconciliation, and calm was driving me crazy.

    • I became soul-tired and burned out from the entrepreneurial hustle. From the Hustle Culture, Boss Babe, toxic positivity, spiritual bypassing, guru coaching, profit calendars, content batching, BS… I was a course junkie, coach addicted, special offer sparkle syndrome mess.

    • I purged my life, moved cross country, changed my name, shaved my head into a she-hawk, rebuilt my business and I’m here to say I’m living life by design!

  • Everyone’s shit is SHIT! Some shit hits harder than other shit. The frustrating thing is there will always be shit. So, Shit!

    I’m here to say I see you! I get you! I got you!

    For the moments I can relate and those I can’t. I would like to offer my support, this sanctuary and community to you. To be your safe space away from the shit. To unlearn, cocoon, become and be. To choose, decide, and take action in the best interest of YOU! To help your shift your shit to feel less like shit and more like a moment for change. Change that you can handle, navigate, and be YOU through. Constantly refining, infusing and honoring your identity. As its your identity that will have the answers for you now and always.

  • I encourage you to read the value statement, my approach, the process, and explore the ways we can work together. However YOU choose to navigate this space, you do you, and know I am here to support you anyway I can.

  • You're Brilliant! Now I'm crying out of happiness

    Latasha Jimerson

  • She looks into your soul and pulls the best parts out. I'm so excited to be working with her. Best investment you'll ever make.

    Leilani Filipanko

  • Working with Lola was a true joy! Our conversations were evocative and creative. Her very detailed approach to uncovering the purpose and heart of my work and business reignited in me the reasons why I do what I do.

    Diane Weekley

  • I am so grateful I chose to invest in myself by working with Ashley and her Iconic Details team to manifest my ultimate potential!

    Audra Mika